Cats that are bonded sometimes show sweet displays of affection toward each other, like grooming. They’ll lick and bite each other, clean the other’s fur, and spend a lot of time making sure the other cat is purrrfectly clean. This type of grooming is a good sign—it means your cats are friends.
4. Mother Cats Groom Their Kittens
For a newborn kitten, one of their first experiences in life is being caressed by their mother. When a kitten is born, its mother will groom it right away to encourage bowel movements and clean up after her young.
As the kittens grow and become independent in their elimination, the mother keeps up the grooming habits. Mother cats licking their kittens is primarily motivated by hygiene, but it also fosters bonding, offers comfort, and teaches the kittens how to groom themselves, according to Arden.
2. Survival Instincts: Clean Cats Live Longer
Bonding isn’t the only reason cats groom each other—at least in outdoor colonies. Allogrooming is important for survival. Aiding in the removal of fleas, ticks, and other life-threatening parasites.
Indoor cats might allogroom, in part, because their survival instincts tell them to. But that drive is likely minimal—especially if your cat is up to date on flea preventatives. More likely, Dale says, indoor cats allogroom because “it’s social and a means of communicating mutual trust.”
It’s Very Normal for Cats to Groom Each Other
As you can see, letting your cats groom one another is safe. This can be a sign of closeness and bonding between your cats, and it’s a perfectly normal aspect of feline behavior. It indicates that they are extremely close in cat terms, even though it doesn’t mean that they “love” each other in the sense that we humans understand love!
If your cats are prone to grooming each other, make sure both of them are healthy and free of parasites before doing so. If one cat develops a skin or coat health problem, you may need to try to prevent shared grooming until the problem clears up.
Even though this behavior is typical, you should always see a veterinarian if you have any concerns about your cat’s behavior or would like to find out more about why cats groom one another. You can schedule an appointment at any Heart Paw location, and our staff will be pleased to offer you insights into the behavior and health of your pet.
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